Homophobia rears its Ugly Head again…

Saturday was set up to be a great day. The rain had subsided early on, and the sun had decided to put on its hat and head out for the day. Despite a cold and strong breeze reminding us that we are still heading steadily to the mildness of October, it was still a great day to watch football. After a swift walk from the relative comfort of the pub to the hostility of the King Power Stadium (with a bacon cheeseburger en-route), I made my way to to my home for the next ninety minutes – sandwiched between two young men with less-than-welcoming personal hygiene – just in time for kick-off.

The teams emerged – Brighton and Hove Albion the visitors to Leicester for the day – to rapturous applause from both sets of fans; with the Post Horn Gallop played impeccably, as per usual. However my anticipation for the game quickly turned to disgust after just a minute-and-a-half of the game, as choruses of “You’re just a town full of faggots” rang out from behind me.

Now, before I go on further, I should tell those who don’t know much about Brighton and Hove a few pieces of information. The city, situated on the Sussex Coast, is commonly referred to as the “Gay Capital of Britain”. This is due to it having a very substantial LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender) community. Each August, the city hosts the fantastic “Brighton Pride” event; which aims to eliminate the discrimination of the LGBT community whilst promoting equality and diversity in the community. Each year, the event is attended by over 100,000 people; some of which are neither homosexual or transgender.

Returning to the game, the visitors started off the game brightly; with their impressive support of around 2,000 warming up their voices. But it wasn’t long before their chant of “Sea-Sea-Seasiders” was transformed into a less-than-witty retort of “Shit-shit-shit stabbers” by a small section of the home crowd.

Over the course of the first half, the moronic chants continued to head in the direction of the visitors, ranging from “Does your boyfriend know you’re here?” to screaming “get up, you poof!” at a Brighton player, whilst down on the floor with an injury.

By the time that the full-time whistle was blown and I had moved to a different section of the ground, the bigoted chanting from a small minority – and I must stress that it was only a small section – had soured what was an encouraging win over the early Championship pace-setters. I should have walked from that stadium with a smile on my face, but all I could think of was the brainless lack of tolerance from some of the people who I am supposed to call my fellow supporters.

All credit to the Brighton supporters, many shrugged off the abuse and continued with the support of their team; although I fear that their ability to let such abuse over their heads means that homophobic abuse is a common occurrence when the Seagulls pull into a town. It’s also a worry that by singing such despicable chants, it is condoning such behaviour to younger fans. There were kids chanting in the crowd, who must have been no more than nine-or-ten years old; already a new generation converted to social ignorance and sexual discrimination.

I take comfort – albeit a very small amount – in the fact that many of the Foxes fans were appalled by the actions of a few. Posts on Leicester City forums ranged from “There isn’t any place for it at the King Power Stadium” to “a group of hundreds of football fans chanting ‘faggots’ is outright intimidating behaviour”. However there were still a number dismissing the chants as “just a bit of banter”.

Yet these people are also some of the same group of supporters who are outraged on the few occasions where opposition fans – Bristol City and Nottingham Forest immediately spring to mind – chant “You’re just a town full of Paki’s” (due to the cultural diversity within the city of Leicester, of which the South-Asian community have a large presence) when the Foxes play away.

Although there are high-profile campaigns – “Kick it Out” being the most well-known – which are steadily trying to eradicate racism from both the terraces, and society in general; there is almost a “sweep it under the carpet” attitude towards homophobia.

The Justin Campaign (http://www.thejustincampaign.com) does tremendous work in trying to prevent homophobia from rearing its ugly head in football; but with almost no publicity given to the organisation, it relies mostly on word-of-mouth to help publicise its objectives.

For now, without the high profile backing of players or clubs, homophobia will continue to grow in the sport. Unless action is taken to publicise such organisations, their message will unfortunately be drowned out by a chorus of bigoted chanting.

For more information on The Justin Campaign, head to their website, and follow them on Twitter.

About these ads

29 Responses to “Homophobia rears its Ugly Head again…”

  1. sorry, but if you are offended by terrace banter you shouldn’t be in the ground. It’s just banter between fans that Brighton fans know they will get and don’t get upset about. If I was a homosexual I’d of found it just as funny as I do reading it. Why you are taking offence on behalf of someone else goes over my head but after reading your reaction, and I don’t mean it as offence, Im glad I dont go down the city anymore

    • I’m taking offence because it’s homophobic. There’s no place for it in society at all, let alone “down the City”. There’s no difference between homophobic abuse and racist abuse. Neither should have any place in the football ground.

  2. It is sad and ignorant events like this that make it hard for us to make any real progress as a society. Arguing that it is just a bit of “banter” just won’t wash these days, it’s like the old excuse about how elderly people are all racist because they don’t know any better. We do know better, so lets be better.

  3. Funnily enough, several Woking fans were ejected and arrested against Brighton in the FA Cup last year for singing exactly the same songs. So, one must assume that stewards and Police were of the opinion it’s actually unpleasant and against the law. Just banter, it isn’t. Terrace ‘humour’ is better than this, or at least it used to be.

    • I think the problem on Saturday was the sheer numbers. There was not enough of a steward/police presence to carry out the same actions; and if they’d have tried, the situation could have escalated.

  4. I agree it’s bad, and (as someone who goes to away Brighton games a fair bit) it’s not just at Leicester, it’s everywhere, and at home as well. Credit on one level to the Brighton fans who don’t let it get to them (and often respond with “you’re too ugly to be gay”), but it’s a shame to hear it.

    • All credit to Brighton fans, whatever abuse was thrown at them was shrugged off. But one wonders that if it wasn’t shrugged off, would more of a deal be made of it?

  5. Excellent article about an issue which is so readily ignored by the media. I imagine it’s because it’s not targeted directly at gay players in the same way that racial abuse is directed. It’s no more excusable though and has absolutely no place in the game.

  6. Great post. Homophobia is the unspoken relative of racism when it comes to the football world. The FA must start repremanding clubs who let this occur. Fans at my club (Norwich) recently got a fan banned from our ground for racist abuse he aimed at a player on Twitter. The fan was also later prosecuted successfully. I encourage all fans to report homphobic and racial abuse to their clubs and the police. The only way to get reid of this is to confront it head on. If you are worried for your safety when reporting it, there are always annonymous channels to go down and these should be publicised. It’s not ‘grassing’ to report racists and homphobes… it’s the right thing to do. Only then can we be proud!

  7. It seems to me that it’s all too easy to pass this sort of thing off as “banter” when the reality is that it’s hurtful and disrespectful to those gay players and supporters who are at the ground, many of whom may be supporting your own team and not Brighton’s.

    I’m a gay football fan who has been in grounds where homophobic abuse has been aimed at players, or a whole team or set of supporters, and although I’ve become fairly thick-skinned to such abuse, I did feel uncomfortable being amongst such chanting. I asked two other gay supporters who were in the same part of the ground as me after one occasion, what their feelings were, and they felt very much the same way – although it wasn’t directly aimed at them, it’s not something that you can sit easy with.

    Several gay friends will not go to football matches because of this kind of environment affecting them personally – it’s not an environment they enjoy being in. Yet the FA and various leagues sit on their hands and won’t treat it in the same way that they treat racism, because few/none of the member clubs (I believe Brighton are one exception) are willing to stand up and condemn it. I’ve even seen two Football League managers make public comments this season and last season that I’d deem to be homophobic (one said his team “tackled like a bunch of pansies” whilst another suggested a couple of opposition supporters “looked like they’d come from Club GAY”) – when this sort of language is deemed to be acceptable “banter” then it’s no wonder that incidents like the above continue.

  8. I’m glad you’ve covered this, and touched upon how the tribalistic nature of football supporting takes crowds into some pretty unpleasant places – indeed, places that can make large numbers of fans within those crowds uncomfortable. Clearly, people differ on what can (or should) constitute “banter” and what is abusive and unacceptable, but as a queer/trans Norwich fan who’s lived in Brighton for eight years, I’ve found the Albion games, and the stereotypes that come with them, very difficult.

    On my two trips to the Withdean Stadium, I had to sit with the Brighton fans as I couldn’t get a ticket in the away end – which left me in the position of sitting with the opposition supporters, listening to the people I usually sit with hurling homophobic abuse (although not quite as extreme as the above, as I remember) at the Brighton fans, feeling personally affronted by it even though I discounted myself from certain Norwich fans’ attempts to annoy the home crowd. I understand the “banter” mentality (it was Robbie Fowler’s “defence” against the homophobia accusations levelled by Graeme Le Saux and others, after all) and I’ve had no problems since I started going to games as an ‘out’ transsexual woman, but I still don’t really feel I should have to put up with it – nor do any of the other queer or queer-friendly football fans I know (and I know a decent amount).

    I won’t go on too much about this here as I’ve discussed the subject in several podcasts (Cafe Calcio, Cardboard Shinguards and Two Footed Tackle were all very keen to cover the matter) but I think it fair to mention that Charlton Athletic and AFC Bournemouth both provide backing to gay football teams (the London Falcons and GFC Bournemouth respectively), as do Brighton & Hove Albion. That’s great, but more needs to be done to make high-level professional stadia into safe spaces – the ‘invisibility’ of gay players makes it too easy for the FA and other authorities to ignore the issue as it allows them to argue that players aren’t being affected. That may or (more likely) may not be the case – but what about the fans?

  9. I’m a fanatical football fan, and my team happens to be Crystal Palace, Brighton’s arch-rivals. I am happy to join in with any amount of anti-Seaweed abuse – it’s all part of the proper ‘banter’. (hmmm – ‘banter’ – I shall be one of the 2500 away fans at the Amex Stadium next Tuesday, and I know that the atmosphere of animosity inside and outside the ground will go a long way beyond ‘banter’…). But I cringe at the homophobic chants and songs, and at references to the ‘Gaymex’ or ‘Mansex’ stadium. Most opposition corner-takers have been subjected in the past to the ‘we know you’re shagging Will Young’ from the Holmesdale Stand, but that’s where it stops (though it’s still unacceptable) except against Brighton. Friends of mine who were at my recent wedding in the company of other, gay, Palace fans, will still find it acceptable to sing this stuff. It isn’t. And I keep telling people that, but get nowhere. It will only stop if people get thrown out / prosecuted as they do for racist abuse, which was never (in my 41 years of supporting Palace) THAT prevalent at Selhurst Park as opposed to, say, Chelsea or Millwall, but is practically unheard of now. Actually, racist abuse would probably be jumped on by other fans if it were shouted out, but we seem a very long way off that being the case with homophobia, sadly.

  10. Unbelievable. You need to man up. Terrible article.

  11. Whilst I agree with the article, I would be interested to see where the majority of people draw the line. Is regional ‘banter’ ok (for example, singing the “sign on” version of YNWA alone to Liverpool fans)? What about players’ personal lives (I remember Kevin Phillips getting abuse when his wife cheated on him during his Southampton days)?

    Obviously in a utopian world, supporters would be exactly that, supporters. Only making noise to get behind their chosen team. We all know that will never happen though, so what about those grey areas such as regionalism?

    • I think that there has to be a certain amount of “banter” between fans. But the line should really be drawn at anything offensive. In regards to players’ personal lives, that’s a totally different kettle of fish; and to be honest, I haven’t given that much thought before. Maybe it’s a post for the future. Thanks for taking the time to comment though, it’s much appreciated.

  12. Good article bringing the issues out into the open for dicussion, which is done far too rarely. Where we are now with homophobic abuse is where we were with racist abuse in the 80s, with some people saying it’s “banter” and “all part of the game” whilst others recognise it for what it is.
    But the tide is slowly changing now, as it did then, because racist abuse didn’t (largely) go away because of prosecutions and club actions – racist abuse became unacceptable in society and football followed its lead, effectively through self-policing. Once the cretins who think it’s legitimate banter don’t get others joining in, or get picked up by those around them, it will die the death. And the more we have articles like the the sooner that day will come.

  13. I think Lee raises a good point. I do not think that homophobic chants are acceptable, yet I will hold my hands up and say I have found them amusing at times without really giving it much thought. Does this make me homophobic, no, but it does make me ignorant. I had never thought of it from the viewpoint of gay fans who would feel uncomfortable or insulted. I had dinner with a gay friend last night and had intended to show him the article and get his thoughts (even though he is not a footy fan himself) – but when it came down to it I was too embarrassed about the chants that football fans sing… I think that says it all, if I am not comfortable repeating them to gay friends then I should not pass it off as banter either. Great article Ryan, and has made me look at things differently.

  14. Despite banging on for a paragraph about the weather and being poorly written for the most part, this article almost raises an interesting point about homophobia being much more tolerated in society today than racism.

    Sadly, the author’s argument that if the Brighton fans didn’t “let it [the chanting] go over their heads” then something would be done about it is obtuse at best. How exactly should the Brighton fans show their disgust? Boo? Return the chants? Throw chairs??? I would like to hear the author explain this and also how exactly that would change the behavior of the minority?

    I would also say the Brighton fans (and no fans) cover themselves in glory when it comes to football chants, and it seems strange indeed to focus on this rather small aspect of fans’ songs.

    • I’m sorry that you didn’t find the article to your taste. You’re the first negative comment which I’ve had though, so I won’t worry and take it too much to heart…

      Firstly, may I point out that at no point in the article do I suggest that if the Brighton fans showed any disgust, then something would be done. As a response to one comment, I do wonder that if the Brighton fans (or indeed any other supporters) did report any homophobic abuse, would more attention be given to the subject? The whole point of this article isn’t to suggest that fans should start a riot, as you suggest. It is however intended to raise awareness of the subject of homophobia in football. And the only way I can see to change the behaviour of the minority, is for clubs and players to publicly back these campaigns.

      Whilst you believe that homophobia is just a “small aspect of fans’ songs”, I find it to be a rather disturbing problem which seems to be very prevalent on the terraces. I also don’t understand why you feel that it is strange to focus on homophobic abuse. At no point do I suggest that Brighton fans are saints (I couldn’t possibly comment, having only been to one game involving them), however I can only write about what I witness; and this weekend I witnessed homophobic chanting aimed at the Brighton team and supporters.

      From some of your points, I feel that you might have not read and understood the article properly.

  15. Fantastic article. Belated congratulations on showing up the bigots for their complete lack of intelligence and maturity.

  16. Just discovered this article. Raises many valid points, well done.

  17. Good article and glad you raised it. AS A Brighton fan I’ve been listening to this stuff for years. The defining moment was away at Swindon about ten years ago in a play-off semi-final when the tractor boys were singing the usual “Does your boyfriend know you’re here” and “town full of faggots” songs. We scored. Cue the Brighton fans : “One-Nil to the Nancyboys!” Those Swindon fans were gobsmacked. “You’re too ugly to be gay” is another favourite which disarms the homophobes. In short I am proud that the average Brighton fan who travels to away games has found a clever way to deflect the abuse and make the home fans feel stupid while staying on the high ground of not being homophobic (although Nancy boys is possibly, but in context it was sung with Pride !)

  18. A good issue to raise. Personally, I have to say that I think that on a moral level, abuse is abuse, whether it is racist or anti-gay, and it is by definition liable to hurt or cause offence. Blaming someone for taking offence is ridiculous. After all, what is the difference from blaming someone for being upset if they get bullied? I think the most interesting comment above is from Lee, who questions where we draw the line. He then mentions regionalism, which I think this is absolutely relevant. The only consistent moral line to take is that all abusive comments are wrong. Homophobia I think is a bigger issue than regionalism right now, but regionalism can have harmful consequences nonetheless. Perhaps one day society will evolve to the point where anti-Scouse prejudices, to take one notable example, are more universally frowned upon, if not prohibited. If you think that is overly optimistic, I would have to agree, but if you think that such a world is not desirable that is where I want to protest. For example, I imagine critics trying to argue that offensive language is somehow a right, or that it would be impossible for them to find anything funny if it doesn’t involve nastiness. To those who feel that this so-called ‘banter’ is acceptable, I would ask: why? What about it is at all good? Surely you don’t think it is somehow an important civil right to be horrible to others? What is so bad about peace, love and understanding?

    Now, when it comes to the issue of comedy, satire and mockery, how far do we go? There is a relevant moral difference in [a] mocking someone for something they have no control over (e.g. their skin colour, or -most scientists would agree, I think- their sexuality) from [b] mocking them for something they have done (for example, I think that chants critical of John Terry’s private life are fair game, given the allegations of adultery.) What about chants like ‘you fat bastard’? I would argue this comes into the second category. Also, I would argue, it is important that our culture tolerates mockery of religion and political views. After all, if you hold such views, you should be able to justify them.

  19. I am a Brighton supporter and I find the chanting at matches incredibly upsetting. At the FA cup match on Saturday against Newcastle it was hideous. There was an altercation on the pitch with one Brighton player clearly being distressed by a Newcastle players comments about him being a ‘gay boy’. Strangely enough this was not picked up by the referee….

    I am really getting frustrated by the intolerance of racism on the pitch and acceptance of homophobia.

Trackbacks

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

%d bloggers like this: